friends

just came off an amazing weekend with my oldest and dearest girlfriend. we did a high school football game, scrapbooked, and just spent time together. my life has been ridiculously hectic these last few months. under a great amount of stress at work and in my personal life. a month ago when we started to plan this little get together i had no idea that it was so needed.

sarah and i did nothing but laugh. and she's one of those "no questions asked" friends - take me as i am. it's just so easy being with her. and that is exactly what i needed. that is what we all need. so many people around us are high maintenance. they take so much and give so little. we feel that we have to prove something around them. having people like that in my life leaves me feeling so drained. sarah is just the opposite. if i had a big jar to represent my life, it was bone dry on friday afternoon. and sarah made it overflow. she's like that.

i'm a very lucky person though. i have more than one sarah. i have quite a few actually. i can turn to any one of them and refill my jar. hopefully i do the same for them. i would hate to think it is one-sided.